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 | | Every month, we get letters from women just like you, telling us just how wonderful their experience with the program has been. Here are just a few:
Dear Lourdes:
I don't know how to express my gratitude for creating this product. I've been looking for something like this for a long time and I'm so grateful to have found out about this. When I received the videos I watched them all in one night and I couldn't get enough. I've been on a mission to transform myself, to advance in my career, and finally reach a level of self confidence that I've never had.
I've spoken to so many successful women searching for advice but no one could give the tips and pointers that UdefineU has taught me. I saw a difference in myself immediately! I'm amazed at the results.
I want to recommend this program to everyone! I'm finally free of my own boundaries.
THANK YOU!- Michelle E. |
Dear Lourdes Figueroa,
I would like to take a moment to respond to your UdefineU program. I am newly divorced, 56, and starting a whole new life. My mother went to finishing school in the 30's in Denver, Colorado and brought me up as she was brought up with a strong refined Swedish ancestry. I was pretty devastated after my divorce with my self-image.
Something drove me to find a program such as yours. The moment I received it in the mail, I began to feel the strength of my mother's refinement start to grow within me again. As soon I put that first DVD on and heard the reoccurring theme song, I just melted and felt the beauty in me awaken. It was incredible. As I continue through the program, I became more my Self and feel my confidence return. I have entered every exquisite store in the St. Louis area looking for the right lines, style, and elegance that are for me. From this program, I became so inspired that I have cleared out my enormous closets of all clothing that I needed to let go of. I stand much taller now; walk with an air about and above me that is undeniably beautiful. Each day I aspire to truly claim my highest worth in a graceful, honest, yet sweet manner. This is a change that I have committed to nurture and refine for the rest of my life. Your program is fantastic! Now I am looking for even more defined elegance especially in terms of conversation and am curious to see what else you offer.
Thank you so much for the care and expertise you put into this program. It is first rate and I will recommend it to many of my friends.
Sincerely,- Diane A. |
Dear Ms. Figueroa,
Thank you for this opportunity to share my thoughts about UdefineU.
I found the UdefineU: Foundations of Grace and Elegance Program to be an efficient and effective method to revisit, remind, and polish my social graces, poise, and self-presentation. While growing up, my mother taught me many of "the rules" regarding those elements of style and comportment. However, the years that have past without her constant reminders and the very casual society in which we live have somehow dulled my own acuity for true grace and elegance. It is for this reason that UdefineU has sparked my creativity in defining my own style and, therefore, reestablishing elegance and grace within my life. I purchased a second program for my mother who appreciates the program as a refresher for herself as well.
Once again, thank you for this program that has been very helpful in many ways.
Best regards,- Ann F. |
Aloha,
I have watched the DVDs twice the day I received them. They are worth watching over and over again. Aside for learning a lot by seeing how they should be done, the background used on the setting is great. It captured my attention. The hosts project the total self-confidence that I can't wait to possess as I learn and remember the little tips and techniques that will make any woman feels great about herself, thus affecting the people she comes in contact with in everyday life - morning, noon, and night! Thanks for coming up with this easy to learn, step by step tools. A MUST HAVE for every woman who wants to stand out in the crowd, to be bold because she has the panache, to be emulated with the aura of poise and self-confidence, and leave a lasting impression to those people she associates with every day at awe! As a student of UdefineU I feel terrific to have watched and read the materials that come with my order. This tools can be a great gift for any woman (friend or family), either with or lacking the self confidence she needs. The box is pretty neat.
Thanks.- CJ Wratchford Hawaii |
Dear Lourdes,
I am very happy this product. I know God has given me physical attributes, but there was always something missing. I was so amazed at how the little details about posture and poise make such a huge difference. The next day, after reviewing the program, I practiced coming down the stairs. As I quickly glanced around, all eyes were on me! I was so amazed at this product. I love being the new woman with elegance. Its absolutely amazing. Thank you so much. I truly love this product :)
Sincerely,- Miss Zahid |
Dear Lourdes:
I have watched your program through twice, and I have watched the first segment on poise and style several times. I am enjoying the tools to learn how to better carry and present myself in public. A great product, and i enjoy the updates in my email. Thank you for a terrific product. Although I feel a bit overwhelmed at the amount of change that I would like to see in my life, this is a beginning place to practice. It is a shame that we were not taught this growing up as young children, so much easier to re-impliment rather than starting from scratch. I hope you continue to expand your original product to include perhaps segments on some of the finer details perhaps integrating color into wardrobe, how to choose color for makeup/clothing/accessories based on our natural coloring.
Again, a great program, I will use it for a long time. Well worth the investment, and looking forward to having you keep me posted should you expand your product line!
Thank you,- Lilly A. |
Dear Lourdes-
Udefineu was all of what I expected and more. I always wanted to be the best that I could be and have spent years trying to improve. I've been surrounded lately by younger individuals who have had training in social etiquette. Thus, I wanted to see just how I would measure up with a little more insight. As a result of my search I came upon your information. As I began to read I discovered it was just what I was looking for. I have shared the information with several of my friends and we are not seeking to share with our daughters. I am a senior citizen who feels its never too late. Thank you for such a magnificent and well packaged kit of information. I am truly impressed and love it. My friends and I are having a great time sharing.
Thank you,- T. Williams |
Hi Lourdes,
I have enjoyed the CD's VERY much. I have a 15 year old daughter, and although she may be in a rush to grow up...it was wonderful to show her how she could use her efforts to go forward gracefully. The UDEFINEU program is full of skills that could be used everyday and instead of being temporary or fadish.....she could only get better and develop with timeless class.
Children don't always understand when parents are guiding them. It was nice to have the materials presented in a way that she could identify problematic mannerisms in her "daily" life and choose to correct them for her own betterment.
Ettiquette classes are not available in a small town. I was very appreciative I could arrange for one "in a box"! I love it!- Ellen R. |
Hi Lourdes,
I just want to thank you so much for your wonderful product. You can't imagine what a blessing it has been for me! Like you, I have struggled with weight all my life and finally made a decision to change before I turn the big 40 later this year. Once I lost the weight (50 lbs in all & Four Dress sizes), I realized I still looked frumpy and was really depressed. I don't even know how I stumbled upon your site. But I soon as I started going through it, I knew I had found the product that would help me put the finishing touches on my transformation.
I have to tell you that the two most helpful parts were the Style and Posture & Poise Videos. I can't begin to explain how beneficial they were to me. I couldn't believe how easy it was to make minor adjustments in the way you carry yourself and the clothes you wear to create such a lasting impression to make you look taller and thinner! I can't believe I had spent a lifetime of buying all the wrong clothes that look terrible on me.
My husband now looks at me like he did when we were first married 15 years ago. I am so happy with my newfound self... Thank you so much! Losing weight was only half the battle. Applying the tips your program taught me was what created the WOW Factor!
I promise I will spread the word as much as possible because every woman should have a UdefineU Program!!!
Thank you for giving all of us "less than perfect' woman a new lease on life!
All my best!- Jen H. San Diego, CA |
Hi Lourdes,
I absolutely loved the udefineu Cd's. It has been really helpful to me and I will definitely pass these values on to my 14-year-old daughter. I can't tell you enough how grateful I am for knowing these techniques. It has truly made changed my life as well as boost my self-esteem.
I could not have given myself a better present.
Thanks again.- Chrisha M. Alsip, IL |
Hi,
I just wanted to let you know how much I have enjoyed your product. It really was what I was looking for. The professionals that present each lesson come across as just that: Professionals.
I would be interested if, in the future, you offer a lesson on conversation etiquette. For example, phrases that could be used in different contexts. I'm a stay-at-home mom and come into contact with people a lot and have nothing to say.
Thank you so much for helping me through your passion. It has given me the confidence that I needed.- Jill M. Philadelphia, PA |
Dear Ms. Figueroa,
Whole New Makeover... Whole New Me!!!
Thank you for the great makeover UdefineU program. My Goodness, did I change! I was frustrated with the way I looked and was spending my money on useless things that weren't making me look any better. A friend told me about the UdefineU Program because it helped her change her look tremendously. At first I thought I would borrow it from her, but when I went on your website and saw all the information covered, I decided I wouldn't want to give it back. The biggest revelation was seeing how easy it is to change your look by simply adjusting what you're already doing without having to undergo cosmetic surgery, crazy diets or exercise!
I've been doing many of the things you say for years... just the wrong way! By standing straighter the way you show, moving differently and wearing the right clothes, I'm a completely different woman. And I am thrilled because I'm getting the kind of compliments I thought would never happen to me!
Thank You!- Terri C. Bloomington, IL |
Hello-
I was amongst the most skeptical when I bought this program. I had decided to learn to play the cello at 38. The first thing I did was to seek out a wonderful instructor who pushed me until I was ready for my first performance. Armed with a performance coach who's job was to make certain that at least I "looked" good on stage, I trusted in the professional's. I went to the Local great clips, had them remove 27 inches off my hair in favor of a new and modern look (and yes, I donated them to locks of love! Wonderful organization). Next was a trip to a day spa where more professional's taught me to put on makeup and to take care of my skin and nails. The third stop was the local athletic club where I put myself in the hands of.. You guessed it, even more professionals and began to work out and get into descent shape. What was missing was now that I LOOKED good, I had to present myself accordingly. But where?? scouring the local college listing not one class on etiquette and decorum. Ediets.com provided a solution around Christmas time, and the rest is history. Recently at a funeral for my mother, my family gathered and was amazed at my new chartered looks. Everyone tried to guess what I had done.. "Did you change your hair color?" "Is that a new dress?" "Have you been working out?" Even the woman in a pair of muddied cutoffs with dirt stuck to her can enter a room and illicite respect and smiles. UDefine has completed the package and now I now look forward to auditioning with our Local Symphony.
Play On Ladies.. Play On!- Holly M. Colorado |
Dear Lourdes,
I purchased your program after searching for information I could use to teach my nine year old daughter, while brushing up on etiquette myself. We had watched the American Girl movie "Felicity" in which Felicity receives lessons on ettiquette and manners, and my daughter Caroline wanted to do the same. We watched each UdefineU dvd together and practiced what we learned, helping each other along the way! I was very impressed with the professional quality of the program, the depth of information and the new things that I learned. I am so happy that my daughter will go through her transformation from girlhood to being a young woman, knowing that elegance and grace come from more than just makeup application and clothing! I believe these things will help her become more successful in her later years and more confident in herself-- I already see that now! Like you, I used to think if I lost a few pounds, wore the right outfits or had the best makeup, that I would find that elegance and poise I always wanted. Now I see that it is so much more, but in the grasp of every woman. I even think it has helped my relationship with my husband... elegance is definately more appealing!
Thank you for putting together this wonderful program and we hope you will continue to offer invaluable information. You might think about creating a version for young girls. Everyone wants to feel that they are appropriate and attractive and this would be a positive teaching tool for parents, schools, churches and even groups like Brownies and Girl Scouts or community centers. I think the possibilities are almost endless!
Many blessings!- Bethany H. Lancaster, PA |
Hello!
I've purchased the videos from your program some time ago and I love them. I felt I needed a refresher course in manners, poise, and style and I'm very pleased. I intend to order a few more sets and give them as birthday gifts to young ladies entering society needing guidance and a helping hand. Your material was beautifully done! What a great investment!
Sincerely,- Niki B. Littleton, CO |
Dear Ms. Figueroa,
I must say that I found your program very enriching for my needs. I am a Mary Kay Independent Beauty Consultant, and I know that your image is extremely important. I usually maintain a professional image, but I found that your program was a wonderful refresher course to things I sometimes forget. I found the tips on posture, speech, and the 6 basic wardrobe pieces to be most helpful, and I have tried to implement those tips in my daily life, both personal and professional. Thank you for such a great program, I love that it is very easy to follow and is concise.
Sincerely Yours,- Kristen R. Tiverton, RI |
Good Morning,
My name is Cyd R. and I purchased your program and was very pleased. My passion is etiquette and I am currently pursuing developing a workshop or program to enchance the knowledge of others about how important this art is. I would like to know if there are any local chapters located in the Philadelphia area where my knowledge can be enhanced. Any other suggestions that you might have will be greatly appreciated, as I continue my journey towards making the world a better place.
Thank you, kindly, and looking forward to speaking with you soon. I would love to give a tesimonal. I am currently practicing your video and the results are phenomenal.
Regards,- Cyd R. Philadelphia, PA |
Hello Lourdes,
I absolutly Love It! I had a problem with my voice articulation and I've learned to do the exercises in the AM and my voice has improved; I have actually recorded a message in my cellphone prior to the lessons you teach there, I would have never done that. I sometimes call my phone just to hear the message. Not only that but when I ordered UdefineU , simultaneously I ordered the "dressing cronicles" and supposedly they teach there how to dress, however your style guide was better for me. I don't have to buy every fashion out there.Your wardrobe suggestions are classier, more elegant. I absolutely Love It! Extremely Satisfied! Love everything about my videos, they are easy to listen to and the song that is played throughout the lessons are very well selected. Everything was Delightful.
Thanks!- Esther O. Miami, FL |
Hello,
I would like to apologize for the delay in getting back to you. I purchased the series a few months ago and have watched it 7 times.
I found the program very informative and helpful. I have spent my whole life looking for ways to feel comfortable and at ease in any situation.
While I have often been told that I am wonderful at making everyone feel welcome and comfortable, I have been wanting a way to step up my image and poise. Your program has given me a way to do that without spending a fortune on image consultants. People have noticed a difference and I feel so much more confident.
Thank you,- Barb T. Mars, PA |
Hi Lourdes,
I just want to thank you for your wonderful program. I have been an exceedingly shy person all my life. I'm the one that always prefers to stand in the background and let others take the lead. However, in early March, I had to give a major presentation to my company's largest client where I am an associate research analyst (the one in the back room crunching numbers). I was drawn to your program because of the Speech and Diction video. I wanted my presentation to go off without a hitch and I was terrified. I was pleasantly surprised to learn how all the four videos subjects interacted to help me and give me that sense of confidence I never had. The tips were concise and very appropriate to every day life. I was able to practice daily until I felt comfortable and carried myself proudly.
My speech started out a bit shaky, but in no time I got the hang of it and it flowed perfectly well until the finish. In fact, both the client and my company's president complimented me for "a very effective presentation". I am very proud of what I was able to achieve with your help. I now feel and look confident and I'm not afraid to take on more stressful social situations. My new skills will only help me advance both in my career and in personal life.
Thank you for your great system!- Monica S. New York City, NY |
Dear Lourdes:
I am so happy that I "stumbled" upon your wonderful program while searching an unrelated topic (I can't remember now what I was searching for on the web). Our company (Christ's Pure Fashion, Inc.) was created in September to design, manufacture and sell clothing for young women (ages 13-18) that is beautiful, fresh, fun, feminine and more covered up. We plan on competing head on with stores like Abercrombie & Fitch and Hollister, that degrade women and do nothing to help women attain a high sense of self worth.
I am a former High School science teacher (I quit in July to start up this business) and had NO etiquette training beyond basic manners. As I read your story on your website, I realized that I, too, admired the same classy women and wished I had their presence. Breaking into the fashion world is going to take hard work, poise, grace and style (plus help from God!). Your program is exactly what I needed to jump start my own transformation, as well as to give me great ideas for an educational program to help girls understand WHY they should present themselves in a positive light (and wear more modest clothing).
Thank you again for providing me with such a powerful transformation tool! I have used many of the skills I've learned in social settings and have noticed a difference in how I feel AND a difference in how people interact with me. I feel like such a lady - thank you!- Krista W. Milford, OH |
Dear Lourdes,
I'm very pleased with the program and feel it was very helpful in giving me an extra boost in my career.- Julie L. Greenville, MS |
Dear Lourdes,
The Foundations of Grace and Elegance certainly improved my growth and development, and my life. As I result, I feel more confident in social situations. I am an entrepreneur and I often attend conferences and workshops relating to my business. At luncheons, I was never the one to speak first while having dinner too shy I may do or say something wrong. Now that I understand proper etiquette, I am confident that what I am doing at the table is correct. I feel good that when I say something it will be listened to, due to proper speech techniques I learned and practice from the DVD's, as well as the fact that I continue to educate myself not only in terms of my business, but in current news and trends in general. I am also proud in situations knowing that I don't have to spend a fortune on clothing and accessories to have classic style and taste. And I realize that every little gesture or move that I make comes from the development of my body and mind and communication with others as I grow and develop myself and who I am with confidence, pride, and increased self-esteem, understanding the very basic proper ways to act. Today I speak openly at luncheons, and I am able to relax more and listen to what others have to say, and learn from others, and develop new acquaintances, associates, and friends easier. I will go back to these DVD's over and over again!
Thank you!- :-)Patricia J. Hadley, MA |
Dear Ms. Figueroa,
I don't know if you receive many testimonials from male customers, but I wanted to let you know that I recently purchased the "UdefineU: Foundations of Grace and Elegance Program" for my own personal use and have found it to be of great assistance.
I am a software developer and during the previous two years I have participated in many job interviews and professional events, with the likelihood of many more in my future. Accordingly, the UdefineU concept was very appealing to me - and it has not disappointed.
The "Posture & Poise" and "Voice & Speech" tapes proved to be easily adaptable to male viewers, and the "Etiquette" tape was invaluable, as I hope to become more involved in personal entertaining and I now have a great reference guide at my disposal.
Also, as I occasionally incorporate many elements of women's fashion into my own personal appearance, I am especially grateful for the segment on Fundamentals of Style! The presentation by Ms. Lopez-Castro was extremely informative and I have already begun to conform my own closet to her suggestions. It has been truly wonderful to learn how to employ modes of feminine attire in such a way as to flatter even a male frame - as well as to subsequently receive compliments from women on my appearance.
Thank you once again for compiling this excellent resource - I will certainly recommend it to others. Have a wonderful weekend!
Sincerely,- Chris R. Valley Forge, PA |
Hi Lourdes,
I bought your program as an experiment for my nieces, as they do not have a mother to teach them those finer things that women need to know. I thought they might have been too young, but both girls (11 and 13 years)had a lot of fun learning and emulating and they took certain things very seriously, like how others view you when you stand a certain way, etc. I was surprised at how they could identify with every subject you offer.
I think there are certain aspects of your dvd's that are important for the pre-teen to teen group. Good posture for example is important for developing young women, as well as carrying yourself with confidence. I also feel that with this confidence, there will be far less mixed signals when dating. I notice all the time how women set the tone for how men treat them. These simple skills will benefit them in college and on to their chosen career paths.
Your subjects are a very smooth blend of being a lady, yet being a lady who can be successful in the board room. This is a great example for girls. In such an unsure time (teenage years) there is so much less anxiety when you already know that you are presenting yourself well and can adapt to various situations knowing you are doing the right things.
I really enjoyed your dvd's too and I would recommend them to everyone.
Thank you,- Maura T. Northbridge, MA |
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